John Owen Lowe has paid a quiet tribute to his late cousin, Fiona Lowe, days after the 13-year-old’s death, sharing a poem by Emily Dickinson that reflects on hope in the aftermath of profound loss.
The 30-year-old actor and writer, the youngest son of Rob Lowe and his wife, Sheryl Berkoff, posted Dickinson’s “Hope Is the Thing With Feathers” to his Instagram Stories over the weekend. It marked his first public message since Fiona died on September 29.
The post did not include an extended personal statement from John Owen, but his choice of poem offered a poignant reflection during an extraordinarily difficult period for the Lowe family.
Dickinson’s poem begins with its well-known image of hope as something enduring: “Hope is the thing with feathers / That perches in the soul.” The poem describes hope as a small bird that continues to sing even through difficult circumstances, an image that has made the work one of Dickinson’s most enduring poems.
For John Owen Lowe, sharing those words came amid a wave of grief surrounding the death of his cousin, whose loss has affected several generations of the Lowe family.
A family gathering in grief
John Owen’s tribute followed a recent appearance alongside his father, Rob Lowe, at the Los Angeles home of his uncle, Chad Lowe. The father and son were seen arriving at Chad’s home as the family came together following Fiona’s death.
Chad Lowe and his wife, Kim Painter, announced their daughter’s death in a statement shared with People. The couple described Fiona as deeply loved by her parents and sisters, Mabel, 17, and Nixie, 10, and said she had been “the light of our lives.”
The family also confirmed that Fiona died by suicide.
In their statement, Chad and Kim asked for privacy and prayers as they mourned their daughter. They also used the opportunity to remind anyone experiencing a mental-health crisis that help is available through the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in the United States.
The family’s public statements have remained centered on Fiona’s life and the devastating effect of her death on those closest to her, while also emphasizing the importance of support for people struggling with their mental health.
Fiona remembered by those closest to her
Fiona’s death has prompted tributes from members of her immediate and extended family.
Her older sister, Mabel, shared a deeply personal tribute on social media featuring photographs and video memories of the sisters together. In her message, Mabel described the pain of losing Fiona so young and said she intended to honor her sister and keep her memory alive.
Fiona’s grandfather, Chuck Lowe, also shared a brief tribute, posting a photograph of his granddaughter swimming and writing: “Rest in peace sweet Fiona.”
Together, the messages have offered glimpses of a family attempting to process a loss that has come after an already difficult period.
John Owen’s choice to share Dickinson rather than a lengthy personal statement is notably different in tone from some of the family’s other public tributes. The poem speaks broadly about the persistence of hope during hardship, allowing the words themselves to carry the emotional weight of the moment.
It is not confirmed whether John Owen intended any particular line of the poem to represent his personal feelings. What is clear from the timing, however, is that the post came shortly after Fiona’s death and amid a period of mourning for the Lowe family.
A difficult chapter for Chad Lowe’s family
Fiona’s death comes after a period in which Chad Lowe and his daughters had already faced significant upheaval.
In January 2025, the family’s Los Angeles home was destroyed in the devastating Pacific Palisades fires. Chad later spoke publicly about watching his daughters return to the property after the evacuation and seeing what remained of their home.
At the time, he praised Mabel, Fiona and Nixie for their resilience in dealing with the loss.
“Almost a month after we evacuated, our girls finally got to go back to see what’s left of their home,” Chad wrote on Instagram.
He described their response to the disaster as remarkable and said helping his daughters navigate the experience had become his central priority as a father.
The fire had therefore already forced the family through a major disruption before the loss of Fiona. That earlier experience provides important context for understanding the difficult circumstances the family has faced, although there is no indication in the material provided that the two events were connected.
For Chad, the earlier loss of the family’s home was something he publicly framed through his daughters’ strength and his role as their father. Fiona’s death has now brought a much more profound and personal tragedy to the family.
The meaning behind John Owen’s tribute
“Hope Is the Thing With Feathers” was written by Emily Dickinson and is among the American poet’s best-known works. Its central metaphor portrays hope as a persistent presence that continues singing even through storms and difficult conditions.
That imagery gives the poem particular emotional resonance in the aftermath of a death, although John Owen has not publicly explained why he selected it.
His post also represents a restrained form of public mourning. Rather than discussing the circumstances of Fiona’s death or offering details about the family’s grief, he shared a literary work whose subject is endurance.
The approach is consistent with the family’s broader request for privacy.
For readers encountering the poem without context, Dickinson’s words stand as a meditation on hope. For the Lowe family, the timing places the post within a very specific moment of bereavement, as relatives gather around Chad, Kim, Mabel and Nixie following the loss of Fiona.
John Owen is the youngest of Rob Lowe and Sheryl Berkoff’s two sons. His older brother is Matthew Lowe. The family has frequently appeared together at public events over the years, including Rob and John Owen’s appearance at the 2024 ESPY Awards in Hollywood.
The connection between the two branches of the Lowe family has also been visible during difficult moments, with Rob Lowe recently joining his son in visiting Chad’s home to offer support.
Remembering Fiona while respecting the family’s privacy
The public tributes to Fiona have largely focused on remembrance rather than details surrounding her death.
Mabel’s tribute emphasized her love for her younger sister and her determination to preserve Fiona’s memory. Their grandfather’s message was similarly simple, pairing a photograph of Fiona with a short farewell.
John Owen’s post added another dimension: a poem about a form of hope that survives even in the harshest circumstances.
There is no indication that the family is seeking to turn Fiona’s death into a public narrative. Instead, their individual messages have emerged at moments when relatives have chosen to acknowledge her publicly while also asking for privacy.
That distinction is especially important following a suicide. The Lowe family’s decision to mention the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in their statement has also placed the tragedy within a wider conversation about mental-health support.
For those grieving, there is no single way to express loss. Some family members have shared photographs and memories, while others have used a few words or, in John Owen’s case, allowed a poem to speak for them.
His selection of Dickinson’s work does not explain the family’s grief, nor does it attempt to do so. Instead, it offers a small and private-looking gesture made public: a reminder of hope shared in the middle of an intensely painful period.
As the Lowe family continues to mourn Fiona, the tributes from her parents, sisters, grandparents, uncle and cousin have begun to form a collective remembrance of a 13-year-old whose life ended far too soon.
For John Owen Lowe, that remembrance arrived through Dickinson’s enduring image of hope — a small voice that, even in the midst of a storm, continues to sing.
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